I’ve spent decades questioning relationships and the action that we seem to have that are automatic, the ones we think are natural. How we navigate relationships can feel “normal” as in that is just what we do. But, are those actions really what’s best for …
Focus on How You Feel when Dating, Not Necessarily true. Why? Because it depends on how you were conditioned and from where are you feeling it. By that, I mean what we think is chemistry is actually our brains recognizing a pattern in the person …
This is an awesome question. How to earn her trust back? I have a few suggestions. The best person to ask is the person you are working with to gain their trust back. Trust is Earned When Actions Match Words. Keep tabs on your actions …
Tinder is a hot dating app that women love to hate. I hear women all the time saying, “I’m done dating! I’m so over it. All I get are men that want hookups.” The truth is before dating apps clubs and bars were the scene. …
Ladies, single moms are hot on the dating scene. I know this to be true. Back when my daughter was younger, I couldn’t keep up with the men interested. I went on “meet and greet” dates for coffee with at least 100 guys over a 2-3 …
The new buzzword is mindful relationships. But what is a mindful relationship? It’s the exact same as conscious relationships. It’s paying attention to where things are going in the relationship. It’s also is making mindful decisions and reevaluating as you go. Often, having an intent …
Esther Perel, a well know relationship therapist, talks about how “The forbidden fuels desire”. “There is something about breaking the rules and transgression that makes us feel we have touched freedom with a capital F.” ” The moment we break out and we reach beyond …
We all know about Red Flags in dating and relationships. We usually only focus on the Red Flags when they show up. At least when we can notice them as Red Flags. Often, we miss them until they are screaming at us. Green Flags are …
What is equal in a relationship? After dating many, many men over the years, it’s been mind-blowing from a woman’s perspective. It’s not just me; other women have expressed the same issue. Equal can be different. For sure, it should include effort and energy. I …