I’ve had decades of personal experience and education on this subject. I can say that most coaches and therapists don’t get it. You see it everywhere. “Look at the common denominator”, “Change your Picker”, “You have something to learn and take the lessons and be …
Tinder is a hot dating app that women love to hate. I hear women all the time saying, “I’m done dating! I’m so over it. All I get are men that want hookups.” The truth is before dating apps clubs and bars were the scene. …
We all know about Red Flags in dating and relationships. We usually only focus on the Red Flags when they show up. At least when we can notice them as Red Flags. Often, we miss them until they are screaming at us. Green Flags are …
If dating isn’t getting you the results you want consider changing things up. Often, I hear, “he/she isn’t my type”. Does your type get you where you want to be? Think outside the box Consider breaking habits to get yourself out of going after the …
At our core, we all crave connection, even before love develops. We date and have friendships because we want connections. It’s a basic need all humans have. What happens in our desire for connection is that we see the connection through our own lens. Therefore, …
In my work as a Dating & Relationship Coach, I often hear: “If I need to work that hard, it isn’t right”. Meaning the person isn’t the right person if they have to work on it that early on in dating or marriage. Here is …
Help! He still sees other women while we’re dating. What do I do? This is a common complaint among women. They are dating a guy they like, enjoy, and want it to grow into something more. They want exclusivity. However, they feel stuck! Usually, they …
Sex on the third date or sooner. Is it good? There are different responses I hear from women. “ I have needs too, I can have casual sex,” “there is no difference between men having casual sex and women having casual sex. True, except the part …
I speak to a lot of women, and there is a common denominator that I see. It’s the subconscious need for this date to turn into something. Hope! It’s hope. Leave hope at home when dating; here is why. In an attempt to find a …