I dated in my late 40s and 50s and I went on so many dates, it’s hard to count. I was constantly meeting, weeding out, and moving on. I went on 2-3 a week on average. It can get tedious after a while. Until I …
I’ve had decades of personal experience and education on this subject. I can say that most coaches and therapists don’t get it. You see it everywhere. “Look at the common denominator”, “Change your Picker”, “You have something to learn and take the lessons and be …
Focus on How You Feel when Dating, Not Necessarily true. Why? Because it depends on how you were conditioned and from where are you feeling it. By that, I mean what we think is chemistry is actually our brains recognizing a pattern in the person …
This is an awesome question. How to earn her trust back? I have a few suggestions. The best person to ask is the person you are working with to gain their trust back. Trust is Earned When Actions Match Words. Keep tabs on your actions …
Tinder is a hot dating app that women love to hate. I hear women all the time saying, “I’m done dating! I’m so over it. All I get are men that want hookups.” The truth is before dating apps clubs and bars were the scene. …
Ladies, single moms are hot on the dating scene. I know this to be true. Back when my daughter was younger, I couldn’t keep up with the men interested. I went on “meet and greet” dates for coffee with at least 100 guys over a 2-3 …
This is a great question to answer. I often get asked about “how to know if you have a backburner relationship/s”. To know if you have a backburner friendship/s or acquaintance you look at why you’re still connected with the person. Really be honest with …
The new buzzword is mindful relationships. But what is a mindful relationship? It’s the exact same as conscious relationships. It’s paying attention to where things are going in the relationship. It’s also is making mindful decisions and reevaluating as you go. Often, having an intent …
Esther Perel, a well know relationship therapist, talks about how “The forbidden fuels desire”. “There is something about breaking the rules and transgression that makes us feel we have touched freedom with a capital F.” ” The moment we break out and we reach beyond …