Tis’ the Season for Default Relationships. Cuffing Season is here! The highest dating season of the year! It’s prime time for getting into default relationships. I see so many people dating and letting things slide, often saying, “No one is perfect.” This is true; no …
Oh my! This topic is so close to my heart. I’ve absolutely had this happen to me, more than once. I’m empathetic, compassionate, and patient and it has attracted the wrong kind of men in my life. It took me decades to figure out how …
This is something many men think they know, but in reality, they don’t. What to say to women on the first date. Many want to get to the point and not waste time. So, they get to the point right away. Not a good plan. …
In all my years of dating and talking to people, there seems to be this common belief that you just start dating, and see how you feel, see how it goes. This isn’t exactly how you find the right person. It could happen that way, …
I dated in my late 40s and 50s and I went on so many dates, it’s hard to count. I was constantly meeting, weeding out, and moving on. I went on 2-3 a week on average. It can get tedious after a while. Until I …
Single again? Not sure what to do? Through my many years of dating and talking to hundreds of women about their experiences with online dating, these are the 4 habits you need to break before jumping into online dating sites. Don’t go by appearance only …
Recently, through my inner work, I’ve had to sit with some really hard realizations that felt hopeless for me to change. We can’t change other people. We can’t get them to see our value. We can’t get them to really hear us if they aren’t. …
Gearing up for the New Year holiday? Do you set goals or reflect on lessons learned during the year? During New Year’s eve, I used to get weird. I missed out on a lot as a child and I would watch people have tons of …
I’ve spent decades questioning relationships and the action that we seem to have that are automatic, the ones we think are natural. How we navigate relationships can feel “normal” as in that is just what we do. But, are those actions really what’s best for …