10 Ways to be a Better Lover!

I usually don’t write about how to become a better lover because it’s something that usually shows up after we’ve done sessions. Often, it’s there waiting for them. However, since someone asked me to write it, here is my take on it. You become a …

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Women, Do You Feel Uneasy being Single for the Holidays?

I’ve spent decades questioning relationships and the action that we seem to have that are automatic, the ones we think are natural. How we navigate relationships can feel “normal” as in that is just what we do. But, are those actions really what’s best for …

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Focus on How You Feel when Dating, Not Necessarily!

Focus on How You Feel when Dating, Not Necessarily true. Why? Because it depends on how you were conditioned and from where are you feeling it. By that, I mean what we think is chemistry is actually our brains recognizing a pattern in the person …

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How to Earn Her Trust Back after Betrayal!

This is an awesome question. How to earn her trust back?  I have a few suggestions. The best person to ask is the person you are working with to gain their trust back. Trust is Earned When Actions Match Words. Keep tabs on your actions …

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Ladies, Single Moms are Hot on the Dating Scene

Ladies, single moms are hot on the dating scene. I know this to be true. Back when my daughter was younger, I couldn’t keep up with the men interested. I went on “meet and greet” dates for coffee with at least 100 guys over a 2-3 …

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How do You Know if you have a Backburner Friendship

This is a great question to answer. I often get asked about “how to know if you have a backburner relationship/s”. To know if you have a backburner friendship/s or acquaintance you look at why you’re still connected with the person. Really be honest with …

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How to Know if an Apology is Real!

I hear a lot of people talk about reuniting and forgiving, giving another chance. They apologized. Said they won’t do it again. Then months later, it happens again. Seems like as a society we are confused about what forgiving is and how to know if …

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Mindful Relationships, What are They?

The new buzzword is mindful relationships. But what is a mindful relationship? It’s the exact same as conscious relationships. It’s paying attention to where things are going in the relationship. It’s also is making mindful decisions and reevaluating as you go. Often, having an intent …

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