Tis’ the Season for Default Relationships. Cuffing Season is here! The highest dating season of the year! It’s prime time for getting into default relationships. I see so many people dating and letting things slide, often saying, “No one is perfect.” This is true; no …
Oh my! This topic is so close to my heart. I’ve absolutely had this happen to me, more than once. I’m empathetic, compassionate, and patient and it has attracted the wrong kind of men in my life. It took me decades to figure out how …
This is something many men think they know, but in reality, they don’t. What to say to women on the first date. Many want to get to the point and not waste time. So, they get to the point right away. Not a good plan. …
In all my years of dating and talking to people, there seems to be this common belief that you just start dating, and see how you feel, see how it goes. This isn’t exactly how you find the right person. It could happen that way, …
In my early 20s, I just wasn’t that interested in sex. I had been known to fake an orgasm or two when I just wanted it to be over quickly. Sometimes it was to give him feedback so that he wouldn’t internalize it and make …
I dated in my late 40s and 50s and I went on so many dates, it’s hard to count. I was constantly meeting, weeding out, and moving on. I went on 2-3 a week on average. It can get tedious after a while. Until I …
Single again? Not sure what to do? Through my many years of dating and talking to hundreds of women about their experiences with online dating, these are the 4 habits you need to break before jumping into online dating sites. Don’t go by appearance only …
I speak to a lot of women. One common issue that still seems to be systemic is ignoring our needs to keep a man. It shows up in many ways. Cognitive Dissonance is one way. This is where we have 2 conflicting belief systems going …
I usually don’t write about how to become a better lover because it’s something that usually shows up after we’ve done sessions. Often, it’s there waiting for them. However, since someone asked me to write it, here is my take on it. You become a …