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How He Praises You is Telling. Are you Listening?

How he praises you, is telling. Are you listening? This is an aspect of dating and relationships, that many do not understand. It’s what a man praises you for and tells you what he wants. What he values. For example, I dated a man, and …

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Do Good Men Cheat? Yes, They Do!

There was a post recently on a women’s group about if women didn’t have sex with men until they were monogamous, cheating would stop. No, It wouldn’t! Here is why. Good men cheat! They do! I know men that have. They are good men in …

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Tis the Season for Default Relationships!

Tis’ the Season for Default Relationships. Cuffing Season is here! The highest dating season of the year! It’s prime time for getting into default relationships. I see so many people dating and letting things slide, often saying, “No one is perfect.” This is true; no …

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You Don’t want a Peter Pan Project

Oh my! This topic is so close to my heart. I’ve absolutely had this happen to me, more than once. I’m empathetic, compassionate, and patient and it has attracted the wrong kind of men in my life. It took me decades to figure out how …

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8 Things Women Don’t Want on a First Date

This is something many men think they know, but in reality, they don’t. What to say to women on the first date. Many want to get to the point and not waste time. So, they get to the point right away. Not a good plan. …

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5 Reasons Men & Women (yes, men) Fake Orgasms

In my early 20s, I just wasn’t that interested in sex. I had been known to fake an orgasm or two when I just wanted it to be over quickly. Sometimes it was to give him feedback so that he wouldn’t internalize it and make …

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