Dating After Forty? 10 Tips for Single Mom’s

Dating After Forty? 10 Tips for Single Mom's Consciously Awake Counseling

I dated in my late 40s and 50s and I went on so many dates, it’s hard to count. I was constantly meeting, weeding out, and moving on. I went on 2-3 a week on average.

It can get tedious after a while. Until I developed a plan. Changed my mindset and saw dating in a new light.

I noticed a lot of women were after the long term. When they dated men and weren’t attracting long-term guys they would get frustrated.

Here are some tips for you.

  • It’s time away from the grind, enjoy it. Soak up the coffee/ tea and enjoy a place you chose to meet.
  • You are meeting another human being, not an option for an end result
  • Be present and take in the surroundings – glance over to others and listen to the music playing in the background
  • Be yourself – totally you. You don’t need to impress – feel your yummy self and all your senses.
  • If not him, then take in what this person said and adjust your desires and needs. Next!
  • Something is there for you, even if it is a man that is relishing in your beauty, feel that.
  •  Don’t get caught up in “chemistry” it’s not what you think. Take the time to get to know this person.
  • Yes, you have needs too, and sex is great if you haven’t had it, but keep in mind you might get emotionally attached. Make choices based on how you will be after it’s over. Will you be left feeling rejected, deflated, and emotionally attached?
  • Keep your options open! Try not to become a couple with the first guy you click with.
  • Peter Pans will really turn it on for a single mom. You are already a nurturing and over-functioning woman and that is appealing to someone who is looking to be taken care of. Try to look for someone that is going to be supportive of you and lighten your load and not put more on you. Look out for love bombing.

Dating is a journey! It’s more for discovering yourself than it is to hunt down a man. Take time to learn your true desires and what really isn’t as important. Be very specific about what your priorities are. Their looks are great, their success is nice and their sexiness is fleeting. Hone in on his deeper attributes, the ones that will make him a great partner. Someone that is very attracted to you and will cherish you.

Getting back into your womanhood and feeling sexy is very important. Take time to really get your mojo back! You got this!

If you would like to delve deeper into starting dating again, contact me, and let’s chat! Free Get to Know Me Sesson!

Photo by Evy Jacobs

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