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Do Good Men Cheat? Yes, They Do!

There was a post recently on a women’s group about if women didn’t have sex with men until they were monogamous, cheating would stop. No, It wouldn’t! Here is why. Good men cheat! They do! I know men that have. They are good men in …

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Tis the Season for Default Relationships!

Tis’ the Season for Default Relationships. Cuffing Season is here! The highest dating season of the year! It’s prime time for getting into default relationships. I see so many people dating and letting things slide, often saying, “No one is perfect.” This is true; no …

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It’s Hell Waiting on Follow Through

It’s Hell waiting on follow-through. I know this specific kind of Hell. You wait and wait until you feel like you are going crazy. To him, it’s not been that long, to you, you know how long it’s been months or even a year, and …

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I Need Him Back Desperately! Dating Mistakes!

I need him back desperately! I made a mistake! So, you made a dating mistake when dating someone and they left. You want them back desperately! So, you text and call only to have them unanswered. You feel so heartbroken that the mistake you made, …

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You Don’t want a Peter Pan Project

Oh my! This topic is so close to my heart. I’ve absolutely had this happen to me, more than once. I’m empathetic, compassionate, and patient and it has attracted the wrong kind of men in my life. It took me decades to figure out how …

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8 Things Women Don’t Want on a First Date

This is something many men think they know, but in reality, they don’t. What to say to women on the first date. Many want to get to the point and not waste time. So, they get to the point right away. Not a good plan. …

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The Power of Vulnerability in Relationships

As the season of love and romance approaches, many of us start feeling that desire to couple up, to experience the warmth of romance. Vulnerability becomes a part of this journey right from the beginning as we start getting to know each other. It seems …

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When the toxic person you are battling is yourself!

I recently had someone ask me “What do you do if the toxic person you need to get out of a relationship with is yourself”.  Awesome question! One I’m very familiar with. First, let’s address the nature of toxic relationships with others. You will attract …

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