I used to feel uncomfortable setting safety boundaries on dates. Not because I didn’t value them, but because I was worried about how the man would respond. Would he think I didn’t trust him? Would he take it personally if I asked to meet in …
For a long time, I thought I had to show up “perfect” in dating. Calm, composed, mysterious. No awkward pauses, no emotional slips, no signs of nervousness. 15 Dating Mistakes Men Are Secretly Okay With Image Source: Pinterest But over time and after a …
People ask me this all the time. My answer is simple: No. Not when you’re choosing from a regulated place instead of a rushed one. Online dating becomes messy only when you’re using it to soothe loneliness or fill a void. But when you’re using …
There was a post recently on a women’s group about if women didn’t have sex with men until they were monogamous, cheating would stop. No, It wouldn’t! Here is why. Good men cheat! They do! I know men that have. They are good men in …
This is something many men think they know, but in reality, they don’t. What to say to women on the first date. Many want to get to the point and not waste time. So, they get to the point right away. Not a good plan. …
We are in the twenty-first century and eons old conditioning is still being used as weapons against women. It breaks my heart. This is the unseen and unsaid stigma that women have to fight against constantly. The clock! The “I’m past the time at which …
I dated in my late 40s and 50s and I went on so many dates, it’s hard to count. I was constantly meeting, weeding out, and moving on. I went on 2-3 a week on average. It can get tedious after a while. Until I …
Single again? Not sure what to do? Through my many years of dating and talking to hundreds of women about their experiences with online dating, these are the 4 habits you need to break before jumping into online dating sites. Don’t go by appearance only …
Recently, through my inner work, I’ve had to sit with some really hard realizations that felt hopeless for me to change. We can’t change other people. We can’t get them to see our value. We can’t get them to really hear us if they aren’t. …