Tis’ the Season for Default Relationships. Cuffing Season is here! The highest dating season of the year! It’s prime time for getting into default relationships. I see so many people dating and letting things slide, often saying, “No one is perfect.” This is true; no …
I need him back desperately! I made a mistake! So, you made a dating mistake when dating someone and they left. You want them back desperately! So, you text and call only to have them unanswered. You feel so heartbroken that the mistake you made, …
Oh my! This topic is so close to my heart. I’ve absolutely had this happen to me, more than once. I’m empathetic, compassionate, and patient and it has attracted the wrong kind of men in my life. It took me decades to figure out how …
This is something many men think they know, but in reality, they don’t. What to say to women on the first date. Many want to get to the point and not waste time. So, they get to the point right away. Not a good plan. …
I’ve had a few long-distance relationships, not many, but enough to know they are hard. Just because it’s hard doesn’t mean it is impossible. Hindsight, I wish I would have given it more of a chance. Dating near my home had been attracting the wrong …
In all my years of dating and talking to people, there seems to be this common belief that you just start dating, and see how you feel, see how it goes. This isn’t exactly how you find the right person. It could happen that way, …
Choosing between three guys can be a challenging decision. Making conscious decisions to choose a partner can be counter-intuitive. We often just want to go with the guy we feel the most “chemistry” with. The one we are physically connected with. When circle dating we …
We are in the twenty-first century and eons old conditioning is still being used as weapons against women. It breaks my heart. This is the unseen and unsaid stigma that women have to fight against constantly. The clock! The “I’m past the time at which …
In my early 20s, I just wasn’t that interested in sex. I had been known to fake an orgasm or two when I just wanted it to be over quickly. Sometimes it was to give him feedback so that he wouldn’t internalize it and make …