I recently had someone ask me “What do you do if the toxic person you need to get out of a relationship with is yourself”. Awesome question! One I’m very familiar with. First, let’s address the nature of toxic relationships with others. You will attract …
I’ve had a few long-distance relationships, not many, but enough to know they are hard. Just because it’s hard doesn’t mean it is impossible. Hindsight, I wish I would have given it more of a chance. Dating near my home had been attracting the wrong …
In all my years of dating and talking to people, there seems to be this common belief that you just start dating, and see how you feel, see how it goes. This isn’t exactly how you find the right person. It could happen that way, …
In a world striving for gender equality, it’s important to explore the depths of our own authenticity and uncover the dynamics that truly resonate with us. This is my journey of self-discovery as I delved into the power and allure of masculine energy and celebrate …
This is a subject that I have tested out myself. The difference in submissive vs feminine. At times they intertwine, but for me, there is a vast difference. In relationships, many use the terms Dom (Dominant) or Sub (Submissive) these terms are taken from the …
Choosing between three guys can be a challenging decision. Making conscious decisions to choose a partner can be counter-intuitive. We often just want to go with the guy we feel the most “chemistry” with. The one we are physically connected with. When circle dating we …
We are in the twenty-first century and eons old conditioning is still being used as weapons against women. It breaks my heart. This is the unseen and unsaid stigma that women have to fight against constantly. The clock! The “I’m past the time at which …
In my early 20s, I just wasn’t that interested in sex. I had been known to fake an orgasm or two when I just wanted it to be over quickly. Sometimes it was to give him feedback so that he wouldn’t internalize it and make …
I dated in my late 40s and 50s and I went on so many dates, it’s hard to count. I was constantly meeting, weeding out, and moving on. I went on 2-3 a week on average. It can get tedious after a while. Until I …