It’s Hell waiting on follow-through. I know this specific kind of Hell. You wait and wait until you feel like you are going crazy. To him, it’s not been that long, to you, you know how long it’s been months or even a year, and …
I recently had someone ask me “What do you do if the toxic person you need to get out of a relationship with is yourself”. Awesome question! One I’m very familiar with. First, let’s address the nature of toxic relationships with others. You will attract …
In all my years of dating and talking to people, there seems to be this common belief that you just start dating, and see how you feel, see how it goes. This isn’t exactly how you find the right person. It could happen that way, …
In a world striving for gender equality, it’s important to explore the depths of our own authenticity and uncover the dynamics that truly resonate with us. This is my journey of self-discovery as I delved into the power and allure of masculine energy and celebrate …
This is a subject that I have tested out myself. The difference in submissive vs feminine. At times they intertwine, but for me, there is a vast difference. In relationships, many use the terms Dom (Dominant) or Sub (Submissive) these terms are taken from the …
I dated in my late 40s and 50s and I went on so many dates, it’s hard to count. I was constantly meeting, weeding out, and moving on. I went on 2-3 a week on average. It can get tedious after a while. Until I …
Do you get triggered? Does it affect your relationship? Triggers are something that causes us to have a strong and sometimes overactive feeling in response to what someone says. Our system goes on alert. This might be due to a previous trauma that we aren’t …
I’ve had a lot of exposure and romantic relationships with men that have very strong narcissistic behaviors. Growing up with a narcissist (not diagnosed), I didn’t know that my brain was conditioned that certain behaviors were normal and acceptable. Even though those behaviors hurt deeply, …
Recently, through my inner work, I’ve had to sit with some really hard realizations that felt hopeless for me to change. We can’t change other people. We can’t get them to see our value. We can’t get them to really hear us if they aren’t. …