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How He Praises You is Telling. Are you Listening?

How he praises you, is telling. Are you listening? This is an aspect of dating and relationships, that many do not understand. It’s what a man praises you for and tells you what he wants. What he values. For example, I dated a man, and …

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It’s Hell Waiting on Follow Through

It’s Hell waiting on follow-through. I know this specific kind of Hell. You wait and wait until you feel like you are going crazy. To him, it’s not been that long, to you, you know how long it’s been months or even a year, and …

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When the toxic person you are battling is yourself!

I recently had someone ask me “What do you do if the toxic person you need to get out of a relationship with is yourself”.  Awesome question! One I’m very familiar with. First, let’s address the nature of toxic relationships with others. You will attract …

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Embracing the Allure of Masculine Energy

In a world striving for gender equality, it’s important to explore the depths of our own authenticity and uncover the dynamics that truly resonate with us. This is my journey of self-discovery as I delved into the power and allure of masculine energy and celebrate …

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Submissive or Feminine? What’s the Difference?

This is a subject that I have tested out myself. The difference in submissive vs feminine. At times they intertwine, but for me, there is a vast difference. In relationships, many use the terms Dom (Dominant) or Sub (Submissive) these terms are taken from the …

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What Triggers Do to Deepen Our Relationships

Do you get triggered? Does it affect your relationship? Triggers are something that causes us to have a strong and sometimes overactive feeling in response to what someone says. Our system goes on alert. This might be due to a previous trauma that we aren’t …

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6 Things I learned from a Covert Narcissist

I’ve had a lot of exposure and romantic relationships with men that have very strong narcissistic behaviors. Growing up with a narcissist (not diagnosed), I didn’t know that my brain was conditioned that certain behaviors were normal and acceptable. Even though those behaviors hurt deeply, …

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